Gone Too Soon: Carmel Mourns the Loss of Xander Wittbrod-Rouse

The Carmel, Indiana community is grieving an unimaginable loss — Xander Wittbrod-Rouse, a proud player for the Carmel Ice Hounds, passed away unexpectedly, leaving behind a wave of sorrow among his family, friends, teammates, and coaches. At just a young age, Xander had already made an unforgettable impact — not just as a hockey player, but as a kind-hearted, respectful, and compassionate soul whose presence lifted everyone around him.

Wearing jersey #75, Xander wasn’t just a part of the team — he was the heart of it. A young man with dreams as big as his smile, he carried himself with humility and strength, embodying everything it meant to be a great teammate and an even greater friend. His sudden passing has stunned the local hockey world, bringing together communities across Indiana and beyond who are reeling from the loss of someone truly special.

A Teammate, A Leader, A Gentle Giant

In a touching tribute, Coach Nick expressed what many in the hockey community are struggling to put into words: “Xander was a wonderful, kind, respectful young man with the biggest heart and smile to match. A gentle giant. The best teammate one can ask for. The perfect player to coach.”

Over the past three years, Xander grew into a standout presence both on and off the ice. He wasn’t just about winning games — he was about building people up. Whether helping a teammate with drills or celebrating someone else’s success, Xander made sure everyone felt seen and valued.

His work ethic was unmatched. Always the first to arrive, the last to leave, and the one asking questions after film to better himself and the team. His coach recalled, “Helping him understand the game was an honor. Xander was the best of us